The trick to making it REALLY big on the internet biz channel these days is to become an authority. It doesn’t matter what the subject is, if you are THE authority on it, you’ll be making money in no time!

Imagine it, you want to become involved in the world of selling candle wax. You’ve noticed that you and your friends all have a hard time buying candle wax online for decent prices or quality support, and you decide that you’ve had enough. You want to become the top authority in the world of candle wax selling!

Now that you’ve got your niche, you need to create an attractive and useful website. I know this is harder than I make it out to be, but I’m going to assume you can do this well enough. For these types of sites you almost have to have a message board / forum, tons of content, and fresh articles. You can get the articles from great sites such as the one you are on right now, or many others. The forums are easy to achieve via php boards, and the content is where you can put your own knowledge.

Now that you’ve got your site live, and applied basic seo principals, you’ll start to see some decent traffic. The most important part of being an authority is to become number one under a few of your keywords in a search engine (yahoo / google / msn are the biggest 3). Once you’ve achieved that, your site will be recieving very bulk amounts of hits. You’re probably thinking, duh, no kidding, with all that traffic my adsense would sky rocket! Or, my affiliate program would be huge with that!

WRONG! Don’t think small, think unrealistic! Wouldn’t you rather make unrealistic amounts of money than normal, every day ho hum chump change? Make your own product, the easiest way to do this is write your own ebook. Write a good guide, a good story, some good advice, just write something halfway good. Since YOUR the authority, people will be clamoring to buy your book. After all, your the best.

Now, if you want to take this a step further, and I know you do, then you’ll want to create a few sister sites, all more orientated toward profit. Using your authority site for page rank and advertisement, give these sister sites huge, awesome reviews, and highly recommend them. You’ll see all of said sites gain huge profits, probably over night!

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I have watched for a couple years now, as my wife’s career has really taken off and I must admit, I am impressed. At the age of 55, having had so many life experiences, it just made me sit up and take notice that something huge is happening. In addition to this, I have seen her income quadruple over the past year.

My wife, Leelo-Dianne Bush is a Christian Life Coach. She is also founder and president of PCCCA (Professional Christian Counseling & Coaching Academy). Her work involves helping individuals reach their goals, improve their lives and relationships and overcome obstacles that held them back. She does her work 95% over the phone from her office in our home. Working by phone, she tells me is far more time-efficient and removes geographic barriers. And coaching is all about efficiency and action-driven results, right?

Life Coaching as a profession dates back a mere 30 or so years. While people have been mentoring and coaching others to success for thousands of years, in our fast paced, affluent world, people have stress and time-management problems. Some people just want more out of life. They are willing to invest in themselves to get their life and/or career on track.

Although life coaching started in the secular community, most coaches have a spiritual orientation they bring to coaching. Christians, because our faith involves living and promoting an abundant Christian walk, cannot in good conscience coach others to achieve selfish ends. And let’s face it, about 80% of Americans consider themselves to be Christians. Enter Christian Coaching.

Christian Coaching is Christ-centered, biblically sound and applies these as well as practical strategies to achieve balance in our lives, give back to our community and live in the abundance that the bible teaches us to live in. Poverty simply isn’t biblical. How much can we bless others when we have nothing? And we are called to be a blessing and reach the world for Christ. In doing so, we need to give others a reason to want what we have. When we have peace, joy, financial security and great relationships, it is a great testimony to the world.

When people know we are Christians, they watch us more closely. They want to see whether we walk our talk. They want to know that we have integrity. It all works together to enhance the Christian community and our image. In my opinion, being a Christian is a whole lot more than just saying we are Christian. It defines a faith and a lifestyle.

I have had a life-long passion for helping others. I am the kind of person who is always called on when something needs change or improvement. Seeing how my wife is able to help others, coach them to success, train new Christian Coaches and reap in countless blessings has opened my eyes to this new profession. So I made the decision to become a Certified Christian Life Coach myself. When I have my certification completed, my wife and I will form a joint practice where she will continue what she does and I will become a Christian Life Coach for men. My specialty will likely be helping men achieve balance in their lives so they don’t go through mid-life crises and helping men transition to new careers or retirement.

If you have considered working from home or want to fulfill your calling by helping others either in a solo practice or within your church community, visit the website for Professional Christian Counseling & Coaching Academy at www.pccca.org.

If you want more information on whether this is the right career choice for you, PCCCA has a new ebook entitled “How To Start A Christian Coaching Practice” offered at their website at http://pccca.org/My_Homepage_Files/Page10.html. This ebook at $3.00, shows you the ins and outs of this profession and how to get started so you know what you are getting into before you invest a considerable amount in your training.

Evan Bush resides in Cape Coral, Florida with his wife and daughter. To contact Evan, email him at bushbenning@aol.com.

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Dealing with difficult people

No matter whether in business or whatever you are doing in life, there are always times when people are in difficult moods, and you are the person that is having to deal with them. This is the time to remember Don Miguel Ruiz’s advice from The Four Agreements, “Don’t take it personally.” It really doesn’t have anything to do with you. If you make the mistake of taking it personally, you will probably realize that it becomes a spiraling downward mess.

If you respond defensively, then they will too. Suddenly things that would normally be workable are now impossible to even discuss. Stop! Take a breath. Take another breath. Now start fresh. Better yet, begin by coming from a neutral place with a clear intention of balance and resolution to whatever challenges come up. Often asking the other person to do the same helps to diffuse their negativity. If they get focused on a clear intention of resolving their problem then you are both working toward the same goal.

Most times people really want to be heard. If you take the time to listen, really listen, without any judgments. That will go a long way to resolve the situation. Listening to them as if you have no opinion about what they are saying. Check with them to clarify what they just said by repeating it back to them. This allows them to really feel understood, and correct any misperceptions. Ask what they see as the solution to the problem. Often they will find their own answers and resolve the situation.

If the situation requires more action, then ask the how they would want to handle it. If what they are asking for is reasonable set a plan to implement their request. If it involves someone else then speak to the other person(s) separately and relay the information and possible solution. Just the fact that you are the go between, you have the opportunity to give the information without the negative energy that the original person might have had. Once the solution is agreed to by all parties, you can set the timetable to implement it, and a follow up if necessary.

There is often something else really bothering the person, and they may not recognize what it is, or that it has nothing to do with what they think they are upset about. When this is the case, it’s often good to ask them if there is anything else that could be bothering them. Sometimes that is enough to have them see the real issue. Other times they won’t see that they are overreacting. If you feel that you can diplomatically tell them that they might be more upset than may be reasonable, they may or may not listen. If not then it’s probably best to set another time to discuss the matter, when the energy will be lessoned.
It sometimes is a big challenge to deal with someone that is in a difficult mood, but the effort is usually worthwhile to shift the situation sooner rather than later, and to remain calm in the midst of the chaos that may be present. Remember the quote “If you can keep your head when all about you are losing theirs… Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it.”–Rudyard Kipling.

John Seeley Author of Get Unstuck! The Simple Guide to Restart Your Life. http://www.getunstuck.com John, holds a degree in Business and a Masters Degree in Psychology, has overcome many obstacles to make his dreams come true. Today he spends much of his time showing others how to do the same.

John Seeley is President/CEO of Blue Moon Wonders and HeartFire Seminars, which specialize in educational and personal growth workshops and products.
John grew up in the Midwest the youngest of five children. He has worked all over the country for Fortune 500 companies. John has been involved in personal growth & coaching since 1990. He works with individuals & business executives who have a commitment to making positive changes and awakening a greater sense of purpose and fulfillment in their lives and companies. John is a catalyst for change your life and has been in the lives of many people. John’s books Get Unstuck! The Simple Guide to Restart Your Life! and Get Unstuck! The Companion Workbook are showing people the steps to take to get their lives moving and create the dreams they want.

Michael was raised in a home where anger was used to control. His parents used their anger to attempt to control each other as well as their children. Sometimes the anger erupted into violence and Michael and his siblings would get physically hurt. Michael never knew when one of his parents would suddenly become enraged, so the threat was always there.

Michael was the oldest of four children and was often put in charge of taking care of his siblings. He often took out on his siblings his fear and rage at being abused by his parents. While some part of Michael didn’t want to be like his parents, this was all he knew.

As an adult, Michael struggles with his frequent anger at his wife and children. His wife threatened to leave him if he didn’t get some help, which is what led him to consult with me.

“Michael, anger is often used to cover up another, more painful feeling. What do you think you are covering up with your anger?” I asked.

“I don’t know. I just get so frustrated and then out comes the anger.”

“What did you feel as a child, besides scared, when your parents were angry and violent with you?”

“I guess I felt pretty much alone.”

“You must have felt very alone and uncared for and also helpless over what was happening.”

“Yes, I felt so helpless! I hated feeling so alone and helpless. It was so scary. I couldn’t wait to get bigger so I wouldn’t feel so helpless.”

“What triggers that helpless feeling now?”

“Humm…I guess it’s when my wife and kids don’t do what I want them to do or what I think they should do.”

“So rather than feel and accept your helplessness over them, which is the reality but is a difficult feeling to feel, you avoid feeling that old helplessness by trying to control them with your anger, just as your parents did. Is that right?”

“I guess so. I guess I try to control them rather than feel helpless. But why should I feel helpless? It’s an awful feeling.

“Michael, when you were a child, you were helpless over your parents brutality, and you were also helpless over yourself in many ways. You couldn’t just leave and go live with someone else. You couldn’t walk away without further punishment. However, today, while you are still helpless over others, you are not helpless over yourself. You can walk away from a situation that doesn’t feel good, or you can speak up for yourself. You can also explore difficulties with your family. You didn’t have any of these options as a child. But unless you accept your helplessness over others, you will try to control them, and anger is the way you’ve learned to do it. Anger is your automatic controlling, addictive response to protect against feeling that old helplessness. You will continue to be angry until you accept your helplessness over others - over what they choose to do and who they choose to be.”

Helplessness over others is a very hard feeling to accept. For many people, it feels like a life or death feeling, because as infants we were completely helpless and if no one came we would die. Some of us cried and cried and no one came and we felt helpless over living or dying. While today helplessness over others is not usually a life or death experience, the feeling can trigger our infant terror. Most people will do anything to avoid the feeling of helplessness, even though we are no longer helpless over ourselves. Yet until we accept our helplessness over others, we will try to control them, and anger is a major way many people have learned to attempt to control.

It took Michael time to learn how to take care of himself - how to embrace and accept his helpless feelings rather than ignore them or cover them up with anger. As he learned to take loving care of himself and his own feelings and needs, he became more accepting of other’s feelings and needs. As a result of accepting himself and others, and of learning to feel and manage his painful feelings, his need to control others gradually diminished.

In the course of working with me, Michael learned to access a personal source of spiritual guidance to help him not feel so alone and to know how to take loving care of himself. Michael found that when he was connected with his spiritual guidance, he was much less likely to act out in anger. He found he could manage his difficult feelings of aloneness and helplessness far more easily when he felt the love and support of Spirit.

About The Author

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is the best-selling author and co-author of eight books, including “Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?” She is the co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding healing process. Learn Inner Bonding now!

Visit her web site for a FREE Inner Bonding course: www.innerbonding.com or mailto:margaret@innerbonding.com. Phone sessions available.

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Hendersonville has received thumbs up from the Tennessee State Soccer Association. They have relocated to Hendersonville…a move that will bring tournaments, money and families to Hendersonville Tennessee Real Estate.

The TSSA (Tennessee State Soccer Association) plans to hold at least two state tournaments every year in addition to several events from their Olympic Training Program, which will result in elite players from across the state coming to Hendersonville for training.

The TSSA is vying for Hendersonville to host the President’s Cup, a regional tournament that would bring teams from eleven states to this family-oriented community. There would be 122 younger and second-tier teams…all of which would require lodging, meals and a lot of income for Hendersonville. This, obviously, would be a welcome boon to the local economy in 2010.

Hendersonville’s soccer fields could easily accommodate the needs of these soccer players from around the country. But, there are plans for the city to add more soccer fields to the local parks system.

Tennessee United, which is another large soccer organization, will hold an event in Hendersonville later this month. The Adidas Cup of Champions Tournament will be held from September 26-28. The last time this tournament was held in Hendersonville…hotels and motels throughout the county filled to capacity as 171 teams participated.

The director of the Sumner County Convention and Visitors bureau estimated that each of the soccer families would spend around $300 per day in food, lodging and related expenses.

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The word digital is becoming more and more popular today and is being associated with just about everything. The digital world is taking over and making life a lot easier for people to function. A digital hearing aid is one of the new and improved forms of technology that the public can count on to make life better.

A digital hearing aid can process sounds at faster speeds, which will make it easier for people who are hard of hearing to hear a lot better. This is going to make a huge difference to people that want to be able to hear more clearly when they are out and about. This is going to be a great success in the hearing aid business.

The digital hearing aids have components in them that are like a speaker and microphone. They are going to make the sound travel a lot faster and make them clearer when they are being transmitted to the person. This is a great way for people that are missing the small and important things in daily life and need to hear well.

A digital hearing aid can be for anyone that needs assistance. These are great for people that want to hear what they have been missing. With a digital hearing aid, they do not have to worry about missing little details that can be very important. They can feel confidant and secure knowing that they are hearing better and more clearly with their new form of technology.

Another detail with digital hearing aids is that there are no more loud screeches or noises that will interrupt when someone is talking. This is a huge annoyance for people that are wearing the aid and for people that are talking to them. When they have the digital hearing aids in, they will not be interrupted with these noises and can go about their daily lives as normal.

To get a digital hearing aid, you can visit your heath professional. They will give you all the literature and the facts that you are going to need about it. You can then make your decision if this is the best idea for you. For most people they will agree that this is a great idea and will be a vast improvement for them and their hearing.

The digital hearing aids are small so that they can be discreet and no one will know that you are wearing a hearing aid at all. You can feel confident and comfortable when you are in public. This would be a great feature that will make anyone feel better about him or her and know that they are hearing the world better now that they have their aid.

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Only about 20 percent of the U.S. population engages in some type of physical activity on a regular basis, according to the Sporting Goods Manufacturer Association International (SGMA). That leaves approximately 80 percent of the U.S. population living predominantly sedentary lifestyles!

These sedentary lifestyles have produced a high number of adults who are overweight or obese. To be more precise, around 65 percent of U.S. adults weigh too much, according to the “results from the 1999-2002 National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey” conducted by the National Center for Health Statistics.

If you’re one who is sporting some extra body fat, there IS a solution! BECOME MORE PHYSICALLY ACTIVE!

In order to lose fat and pounds, you must burn more calories than you consume! Now, if you’ve never exercised, you certainly do not want to try to go out and run a marathon! But, an exercise that just about anyone can engage in…one that is relatively safe and requires no special skills…is walking!

Walking is a great way to rid your body of fat tissue and to build muscle mass. It is a low-impact exercise, with minimal risk of injury. And, when done regularly, it improves cardiovascular health, as well as endurance.

David A. Rives, in Walk Yourself Thin, is a formerly overweight individual who walked his way to a leaner, fitter body. He discovered from his own personal experience that increasing one’s level of activity to over-compensate for the number of calories consumed each day can lead to loss of excess fat.

How long and how far should you walk? Rives says that you should walk just as fast and as long as you comfortably can each day, if you’re striving to replace fat with lean, muscle tissue. As you become fitter, you’ll be able to walk faster, longer, and farther.

Treadmill Walking

Of course, where you walk is entirely up to you! However, there are many benefits to walking on a treadmill.

When you walk outdoors, you’re at the mercy of Mother Nature. Let’s face it! Sometimes, she doesn’t cooperate, and the weather conditions can be less than ideal for walking outdoors. On those days, you either brave the weather, or you simply don’t go out to walk!

If you get your daily walks done on a treadmill, however, you don’t have to miss a workout! You may walk in a comfortable, controlled environment, any time of day or night! Now, how convenient is that?

When you walk on a treadmill, you have no obstacles to watch out for, to walk around, or to trip over. Thus, your chances of injury are reduced. And, treadmill walking is relatively simple to do!

Treadmills typically have display windows that show your speed, incline level, intensity level, as well as the length of time you’ve spent on the treadmill and the distance you’ve traveled. These displays allow you to monitor your workouts more closely.

Most decent treadmills today have pre-programmed workouts, with various workout levels from which to choose. This makes the treadmill perfect for beginning walkers up to advanced walkers.

You get a more consistent, low-impact workout on a treadmill.

Conclusion…

Whether you have only a few pounds of fat to lose, or you have lots of extra fat to shed, walking is a safe, healthy way to get in shape. Treadmill walking is simple, convenient, consistent, and sensible!

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